Don't get upset at either yourself or others about this. No one's dying yet! And remember, you're probably in this to have some fun and learn a little bit too, but it's up to you to make sure you have fun no matter what!
Is it their job to pick up your laundry? Is it their job to code your entire website? No, it's not.
Here's how responsibilities break down:
1. Dreamhost provides us web hosting. This means that they are responsible for the filesystem, the apache web server, the network, and for php.
2. We are responsible for the web authoring. This means that we are each responsible for producing html that, when served up to browsers, produces nice web sites.
Dreamhost is not responsible for making sure that we do our jobs as webmasters. We are each responsible for that ourselves.
Now that that's cleared up, we each come here to the forums to get help from each other because no man is an island. We are here on the forums to help each other out - that is, to help each other do better and get better at web authoring, webmastering, and the other thing.
With this said, I (and others) will take a look at your site and provide some suggestions to you for what might be wrong. I actually have to get some work done here in the office before I have to take off early for a dentist appointment, so I may not be able to look at this in detail until later. Someone else will probably chime in before me and if anything pops out at me when I glance at this before my next meeting, I'll reply again!
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