wow...there so much frustration coming through on that post I'm not even sure where to start trying to help you. .
I personally think that Joomla! has one of the best support systems going, with very active forums and great documentation. There are *lot's of Joomla! tutorials freely available on the net - and google makes them easy to find.
It would also help if you could be more precise in your post - when you say "Frontpage" are you talking about the Joomla! site's opening page, the admin interface's "front page", or MS 's Frontpage html mangler?
I do know that "crying" won't help, and what is easy for some is very difficult for others. That said, if Joomla! seems too advanced for you to get your mind around, you might have better luck getting your content up using WordPress.
Frankly, I think there are even simpler CMS systems out there, but you would have to install them yourself, and that might be a bit much for you.
WordPress has a "one-click" install at DH, comes with a huge selection of Pre-installed templates to customize the look of your site, and using its 'pages" functionality, works very well for a "noob" CMS in addition to the blog function for which it was designed.
Most people feel it is much easier to use than Joomla!