Hmmm.. that's interesting. He didn't "share" your "communications", or "quote" you, he "shared" that you were having problems with FP and subwebs. I think there is a significant difference, though I understand that you feel differently- meh, no "harm" appears to be intended or suffered, so I say "no foul".
That's pretty obvious, I think. That does not, however, mean that DreamHost has to "fix the problem" at all - they can "just say no" and you can host FP sites somewhere else. It's their business, after all, and the ToS makes that very clear.
I think I know exactly how you feel!
I sincerely do not appreciate the tone of some regarding my brand of motorcycle....I have been very successful with my motorcycle riding trips and my brand of motorcycle and I do not appreciate attempts to belittle those that still use it....there are more than you think.