Or rather, worked around. I created a new admin user in the database directly and am able to get in with this new user. The reset password emails never did arrive.
New set up and trying to access my site for the first time. I don’t seem to be receiving emails from the site to allow me to change the password. It appears to recognize both my username I received via the welcome email and my email address but I don’t seem to be getting any emails to change the password. (Yes I’ve checked the junkmail folder).
Am I missing something?