Perhaps you are confusing us. By notifications do you mean e-mail messages? Your shell user should have a mailbox, and a primary address associated with that mailbox. Just configure a POP3 or IMAP client to log in to your mail server. You can use the DreamHost Web Panel to configure the mail server to forward messages to different e-mail addresses.
I think you are not telling us something.
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