Did it show your account is pending when you first signed up the account? If so, it means DH is processing your query.
Did you receive any email from DH? I think the only thing you can do is as what mark said, contact DH support.
I think your case is worth to send them a "OMG EXTREMELY CRITICAL EMERGENCY" ticket
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