Yup i had already cleared cookies and cache, thinking it would fix it... still hasnt... mainly because:
If you type in a user name that doesn't exist in the database, and any password it wont come up with any login error. Which is why i thought it was correct.
So me being such a dumb ass I've been typing in an account that doesn't exist. Sorta poor validation, but could be an security precaution at users expense.
Which begs the question, if my password isn't working with my email, then what is my NDN ID? And if my NDN ID is the one that dreamhost has sent me, why isn't that working with the password?
Still no luck, this isn't fun