I am NOT sending unsolicited email AT ALL. The only email that gets sent is:
- a notification to verify a new registration (which I have now bypassed–people can log in without a valid email)
- when people request a password
- notifications that another member has sent a private message.
The site is only a message board / forum. We don’t advertise, it’s a non-profit. We’re talking less than five emails per day!
I am so sick and tired of this email mess, I really wish I had never moved the site to DreamHost.
Why can’t all the slick programmers at DreamHost figure out a way for my site to send email using its own IP address?