Not the solution


It doesn’t sound like you’ve been asking nicely. You’re threatening in this forum and you say this is nothing compared to what you wrote to support. Now you’re patronizing them too. Is that honorable?

You say other providers gave you lies and BS and you chose DH because you didn’t want that. It may be that DH has some issues (and even a DDOS attack to top it off) but they’re being completely open about it. Is that not honorable?

It was your free choice to sign up with DH. They must have been doing well for a good time since you didn’t get mad earlier. So they must have met your requirements. If you feel DH doesn’t meet your requirements anymore, you’re equally free to choose a different provider. I think DH would even pay you back the unused months you’ve paid ahead but I’m not sure.

I see you’re mad and it’s perfectly allowed to vent it in this forum, but if you really want an audience then I suggest that you keep it to a single thread so as not to crosspost (which most forums reasonably don’t allow). Present your critiques in a precise manner and moderated tone so that others may consider your comments.



I will deal with the person who did this in person when I visit

California next month.

For the benefit of the forum, the person in question would be yours truly. I have reason to believe the above is a threat directed at me personally, and will be reporting him to both his ISP and his local authorities.

Whatever the reason, it is absolutely unacceptable to use the threat of violence against DreamHost personnel or - as in this case - the whole company. If I catch someone doing that, I won’t even bother being diplomatic and give the person another chance (as we normally do if someone is rude or uses vulgarity directed at our staff). I will disable the account immediately.

This isn’t to say that this individual didn’t have valid concerns - it’s possible he very well could have. If he had brought them to us without using the words he so kindly quoted for public display, we would have been happy to address them in a civil manner.

In any case, despite the threats I disabled all accounts under his Web ID and provided a refund for the most recent payment made for each account. I have been in contact with the actual owner of several sites he hosted, and have put them back up temporarily so that he isn’t too heavily impacted by his less-than-fortunate choice of a webmaster.

Guys like this make me feel incredibly lucky to associate with the 99.99% other customers whose sites we host…

  • Jeff @ DreamHost
  • DH Discussion Forum Admin


[quote]I think DH would even pay you back the unused months you’ve
paid ahead but I’m not sure.


Actually, he also threatened disputing charges for April in his original email if we didn’t meet his ultimatum.

While after his threats I think we could pretty easily explain to the card processor that we had a legitimate reason to can the account, I went ahead and refunded his most recent payments for each account (worth $70-80, if I recall) as disputing chargebacks can be a big time-sink.

In essence, he not only doesn’t owe us, in exchange for threatening us with bodily harm he actually got some free web hosting. What a deal! :>

  • Jeff @ DreamHost
  • DH Discussion Forum Admin


That’s the next big DreamHost promotion, folks:



class act, as always.

I’d have paid him to go away too :wink:



Warning - Jeff is big into karate, so this is a potentially risky proposition.


This is too much. I didn’t threaten any bodily harm. When you have to deal with a company that is getting worse by the minute and clients are growing concerned about downtimes you end up getting frustrated. As I said to you and your staff, “I am so mad right that now that I would knock your F’n a$#es out if I were face to face with you.” I wanted to make a point to let you know how pissed I was and I think I did. I was at the end of my rope and could not take it anymore. I will not allow anyone to mess around with my business or money that does not make themselves availabe to discuss it.

Now,I did threaten to leave if you couldn’t resolve the same problem you have been having day after day after day after day…and so on. Your issues were getting out of hand and your excuses were even worse. But it’s over now. I no longer have to worry about when you and your staff will take care of issues that are causing downtimes. I no longer have to wait 2-6 hours to set up databases or e-mail addresses. I no longer have to read that my site is up forever when it is clearly down.

Jeff you could have a great company with Dreamhost, but you need to make yourself and your staff accountable for issue via phone and not hide behind a computer.

Just a heads up, that “Dreamhost Status” feature is something other sites have been doing for years. Keep trying though, eventually you will catch up with today’s standards, too bad when that happens those features will be obsolete as well.


I think the implication here is pretty clear.

Just in case there’s any confusion, it’s not “his staff” (or my staff).


Well, having read up on everything, and for as much as words can convey emotional response, what did you expect to happen when acting the way you did and still do?
Looking down on everyone and everything makes everyone else think that you perceive yourself as being superior while you can’t even control your anger and need to display it publicly for “everyone to see” so they know about my situation and they’re warned etc etc…
That doesn’t mean there weren’t any issues, DH has undeniable admitted they have failed in certain areas, but you could have placed it differently.
Judging from the conclusions you make each and every time, you might know something about websites, but nothing about the layers beneath that “client” interface, which is (put mildly) a whole network of disciplines to master, so kindly step of that high riding horse mister, it proves quite the opposite of what you claim to be.
Anyone claiming that a DDOS is “basic” has absolutely no idea what he’s talking about, do you have the numbers of how many hosts were attacking DH? Or any other statistics? I guess not, because thats the essence of the “distributed” part, and it has … ooo lets see… only the entire security advisory working on ways of identifying/detecting and preemptively acting on it before it contaminates large chunks of the net as it did in Januari 2003.
Its pretty strange how big players with the budget of a 1000 times DH fell prey to a “basic” attack as you say, thats just nonsense talk.
Sure, they can stay on top of it now, have any clue how? They have the budget to go international and distribute the load on continental scale, better connectivity and enhanced uptime, but thats a pretty normal outcome for such an investment, and even then, no such thing as a guarantee in life, so why would it be the case with anything else?
Murphy isn’t exactly far away, even with such drastic measures.
So please, before ranting and trying to “explain” things in a downright disrespective way, you’ll only attract the same kind of respons, we’re all here to learn from each other and try to make things go the right way for all, a little bit of possitive energy would have gone miles, guess you’re in that dark place, well, you’re only doing that to yourself.


[quote]I think the implication here is pretty clear.


Yeah, seemed pretty clear to me too. Could be wrong, though - perhaps “F’n a$#es” meant “fears and anxieties” and by “deal with the guy” he was offering to buy me lunch - in person, no less. :>

[quote]Just in case there’s any confusion, it’s not “his staff” (or my staff).


Yes, this much must be made clear: My plot to take over the company and overthrow the Honchos in a dramatic power grab is still in its earliest stages.

  • Jeff @ DreamHost
  • DH Discussion Forum Admin


…>> My plot to take over the company and overthrow the Honchos in a dramatic power grab is still in its earliest stages. <<

thank goodness, [we] that now work for [you] are not ready yet. We need to first make sure all the negative lunch buyers are at Micky Dees, then you can make your move…the code will be “munch munch.”

Actually, I first thought hflash was a woman…you know hot flash. Don’t get me wrong. I am a woman…but sounded too cat scratch to be a man. When I saw someone refer to hflash as ‘him’ in another post I almost fell off my chair.

As a host provider to my other clients. I know what is going on, with mine and my clients sites, check them regularly, and always contact my clients when things go bad. I don’t blame the host provider, as my clients did not blame me. I let them know I did not know what was happening, provided them with new emails I had already set up on another server, [not at the same addy, but i had already set them up on their outlook] and let them know to send out a bulk email to their clients about the down time. This is not the first (nor do I think the last) time an outage will occur. Not just this server, but others I am on. And, as a secondary provider (as I am in this case) my clients never even went and emailed their clients. They just understood, never yelled and went about their business. They did not lose emails, did not lose customers…

I am sure some lost some clients in the recent DH outagbe. But, we all risk that in the internet world. But attacking a company, just to vent is one thing…but to add vengence and personal aim is idiocy.

I just will never understand why some folks don’t take everything personally, and why others realize there are other forces out there, and nothing can be perfect.



lets take out the ‘don’t’ in "I just will never understand why some folks >> remove >don’t<<< take everything personally, and why others realize there are other forces out there, and nothing can be perfect.


That is becuase I am a man and you are a net nerd. Net nerds forget that when real people get ****** over, by being lied to constantly, they will eventually want to ****** up the people that made them this mad.
Now, I am no longer angry I have what I want. All of my files and a new hosting company that makes yours look like welfare. Yet, I will gladly extend my “OFFER” of this ass whoopin when I go back to Cali this summer. This is not a threat, but an offer. If you choose to accept let me know. Take care ******.



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Heh, point proven… it takes a ‘man’ to insult :wink:
I won’t lower myself to that ahem level…


(quoted)I don’t know if this would help at all, but if you contact support about this (or give Jeff or myself a pointer to an existing support ticket), I’m sure we’d be happy to make sure it gets looked at in a timely manner and that we get this mistake taken care of.

Here’s my ticket number, site has been down for three days.
#833620 #833554 Please fix this. 2 hours 11 mins Remove

#833554 RE: 4 hours 49 mins Remove

3 days.


At the moment is working, just no content apparently.

:cool: Perl / MySQL / HTML+CSS


Yes, the domain is working now, but they’ve got it pointing somewhere I’m not familiar with. I’ve been publishing to the same directory for two years, and that ain’t it.