Hey! Please do!!!
Then I won't have to quit Dreamhost
No but seriously, I went through several support tickets about this and received some very uninformed and seemingly lazy/rude replies. I know that you all probably have a lot on your plate, but it sure doesn't seem to me like updating Passenger is as impossible as the support people made it sound like! Nor do I understand the inherent "security issues" they mentioned. I don't see any "security issues" that mod_node would present that aren't already presented by mod_ruby. But of course I don't know the ins and outs of running a shared hosting company! So maybe there is something I'm missing?