How to update SQLITE3 on Shared Server

So I’ve tried to follow the instructions posted here:

But they don’t work, at the end of it all, SQLite still seems to be pointing to the old version installed in /usr/bin/

Typically I would try doing something like
sudo ./configure --bindir=/usr/bin --libdir=/usr/lib

but in the absence of sudo rights ( on a shared server), I have no clue what I can do

Any suggestions? The customer support isn’t much help here either.