Hmm. That error message doesn't fill me with confidence - that is, a "cannot connect to host" error seems to indicate something other than a password or directory problem, but rather a connection problem. I know you posted this in your original request, but i didn't actually see your screenshot until now.
Since you're on WinXP, what do you get when you try a command line ftp connection?
I know you say you don't have a firewall, but the signs point to a network connection issue or, as a long shot, a problem with the userid you're using to log in. Say, is your Windows firewall enabled?
BTW, apologies for my earlier screwup. After we get everything squared away, perhaps we can discuss using SFTP instead of FTP. It's more secure!
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