You can't do that using FTP because one is restricted to their home directory. Two people will have to use the same user to access the same directory.
Two users can access the same directory using SSH/SFTP, but then you have to be careful about ownership and permission issues.
You fail to mention whether or not one would need to access the directory over the web. That complicates matters.
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