Thank you for the replies. I'm still stuck .
I tried all your instructions. ArtGeek and Ipstenu-DH, you guys are right that I'm trying to access the FTP, not the mysql database ....
When connecting via ftp, all I'm seeing are 2 directories called Maildir and Logs. I tried going to the directory Ipstenu said and it say's it cannot find it. Sure I'm making a noob mistake here.
Nevermind... I figured it out...
I didn't realize that only one user can access this area... so I changed it to be the one I was logging in with and BAM folder was there. : )
Thank you all for the help.