like most things *nix there is more than one way to do this…
About cron, in general, by default across the board, cron runs something when various ‘time’ interval values are tested with an “AND” between each of the interval values… such as ‘monday’ AND hour ‘12’… you can get fancy with the way you express these but the “AND” between each interval value will always be the case, there is no “OR” or “IF”. This is NOT dreamhost specific.
What would probably be considered most correct is for your script to be modified so that it simply exits if it runs at a time that is it’s not desired… Meaning you would use cron to specify all possible overlapped times, then the script itself simply exits if it’s noon on Tuesday and it’s not supposed to do anything then. However I’m guessing if the basic cron interface is causing you problems, then modifying your script to work that way also will…
Another way, and you were on the way there yourself, is to make a shell script for each time the script is to run
NOTE: there is a space in the line above.
Change USER and EXAMPLE.COM to match your user and domain. If the cron.php script has more path to it then modify the above such as: /usr/local/php5/bin/php /home/USER/EXAMPLE.COM/PATH/TO/cron.php
Save multiple copies with file names that make sense to you, adding .sh to the end of the name, like mon-noon.sh tue-2pm.sh etc
Upload all those files to /home/USER/ (it doesn’t need to be in EXAMPLE.com)
Make the permissions on each of these files are 755.
then set up multiple cron entries in the panel make the command to execute:
Most of the limitations you are running into are not Dreamhost specific but true of how cron would behave anywhere.