Thanks for your help. I just went through and updated the NS1/NS2 ips. I'm running a dedicated server, and dreamhost is my registrar and using them for external dns only, so the only dns records that would matter would be the NS1/NS2 A records. After emailing support the last 4-5 times, the last guy explained it what i needed to do.
Registrations -> Whois Info -> Scroll to the bottom of the page where it says "Set DNS info to host your domain elsewhere". This is where i got lost. I needed to: click on the [set these nameserver] button and then it will bring up a page where you can put in your new nameserver's IPs.
They really should have the ips listed below the custom nameservers. because i still wanted the same ns1.elusivemedia.com but just need to change the IP.
Thanks again Andrew & sdayman for taking your time to reply. and if anyone else has any issues, hopefully this can help them out in the future.