Well, as I don't have that password, I can't check for sure via the FTP link, but from what you just described, it seems pretty likely that you may have uploaded the changes to your "base" user directory (the directory you end up in when you connect via FTP) instead of to your "web base" directory (kathylayne.com)
the directory you are in "by default" when you connect via FTP is:
and within that directory you should find a directory named kathylayne.com, which has the following path:
Of course, that is assuming you have not changed the "default" DH practice of assigning a domain's directory based on it's name in the Control Panel.
What FTP client are you using to upload? WHen you connect via FTP, you should first change the remote directory to the kathylayne.com directory before uploading your files. Only files*within or beneath* that directory will be visible from the web.