The default config has a 7M limit. The process killer gets mad when people exceed 100M of runtime memory. Thus 90M is not out of line, nor is 10M a surprise.
There are MANY MANY conversations about this on the forums and wiki and although there are limits to the size of php uploads in the shared environment, there are many non-php upload solutions documented here that are completely unaffected by these limitations.
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